Hi. I’m a step mum. So although not a father, I still have to witness alienation at it’s finest. This has been ongoing for years. There’s a court order in place but now we are slowly seeing attempts at thwarting contact, limiting Communication as well as lies!
Unfortunately, the system REQUIRES that you (your husband) takes proactive action by way of a contravention order (at least thats what they call it in Australia). You have to fastidiously document every word and detail (timestamps) in all dealing with his ex and when you have enough evidence, you have to execute the court case. This can be self-representing. Its not that hard but I'm not giving legal advice. I had to do this and my ex got found guilty on all 5 counts of contravening the orders. I was careful to document the flagrance she exhibited in disregard for the court and disrespect for the court. Magistrates hate that shit. The judge tore her and her arachnid mother a new arsehole. It was satisfying not so much in terms of revenge, but in terms of the stress relief knowing that she could not try that shit again. It's stressfull when they keep you guessing and you don't know if you will get the kids for an elaborate holiday you've planned for them. My ex would constantly and knowingly sabotage holiday plans. The contravention put an end do that. Your superpower is detailed documentation with detailed context. Use chat GPT to help you word things when you put your note into an affidavit. I never had that back in my day.
Hi. I’m a step mum. So although not a father, I still have to witness alienation at it’s finest. This has been ongoing for years. There’s a court order in place but now we are slowly seeing attempts at thwarting contact, limiting Communication as well as lies!