I think this is unrealistic? How do you separate the cost of heating, water, gas? As a parent supposedly in receipt of CMS for 10 years ( he didn't pay) I do not feel this would be in any way workable. Further, given the element of financial control that exists in many relationships this feels that this would contribute to that?
Having had my daughter stolen by her father and now forced to pay child maintenance I agree it is distressing, particularly given I feel it is not going towards our daughter. But to insist on itemised proof of costs feels somewhat unbalanced. Further, the CMS is not fit for purpose as it is, I'm not sure this would in any way help.
I think this is unrealistic? How do you separate the cost of heating, water, gas? As a parent supposedly in receipt of CMS for 10 years ( he didn't pay) I do not feel this would be in any way workable. Further, given the element of financial control that exists in many relationships this feels that this would contribute to that?
Having had my daughter stolen by her father and now forced to pay child maintenance I agree it is distressing, particularly given I feel it is not going towards our daughter. But to insist on itemised proof of costs feels somewhat unbalanced. Further, the CMS is not fit for purpose as it is, I'm not sure this would in any way help.
But I get it and I get your annoyance.