Right. I’ve been through hell to get where I am, so I’ll give a quick story on it:
Child’s Mum moved to susssex from Wiltshire with my son, without telling me, during Covid.
Lengthy battle in court (think of an accusation, used it…usual manouvre)
I ended up with every other weekend, 9 of the 13 weeks holiday. Shared travel.
NOW. I’ve moved to Sussex to be closer to my son. I have told his mum I want 50/50. She has immediately told me to go to court.
Accusations are now popping up (emotional abuse…the usual crap….) even though I’ve proved her to be lying time and time again. I can’t cope with it. On top of this she’s fighting for more maintenance even though I’ve told her I want more access. It’s like shes saying no because it affects her maintenance? I can’t win. I’m a deadbeat no matter what I do.
Is this fair? Can I please have some re assurance before I loose my mind.
Doesn’t help that I’m in an area where I know literally nobody so have next to no support too.
hey bud,
this sounds like my ex mrs, apart from the area she lives in!
you can work out your maintenance payment on the gov website & send her a picture of it?
i am applying for 50/50 also & have had similar crap talk from her, i think it must be something in the water or these womens make up for our generation unfortunately.
i also have no real support, which is very hard, im going to court in 2 weeks to face her 2 solicitors with nobody by my side
in my experience you will have to go through the court for more/any contact or 50/50, which will be a long painful process & we just have to put up with it mostly until there is a court order in place....
good luck & hang tough