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- UK Only DiscussionI need help and advise. I have been married for 4 years. We have a 3 year old daughter. I am british my wife is from India. We were on a spouse visa in the UK. In August my wife just left with my daughter. No communication with me. And whatsapp blocked. I was in shock. And straight away went to her family. Her family slso was not responding to me properly. They were all involved. I called the police. The police said I can't do anything and they have put my wife and daughter in a safe place. Her family and my wife most like called tge police or some agency, for them to get support and accomadarion. The police said the only thing I could do is get a solicitor. I have started tge process with the solicitor. Already paid £2000s in fees. But still not getting anywere and I don't even know were they are or tge condition off my daughter. I am shattered, in shock and mentally destroyed.. I just need help and guidance. As I don't know what's going on and not been in this process. I don't care about mycwife as she just used me because I am british and her intentions were bad. I just want to see my 3 year old daughter as she means everything to me and shecwas very close to me.Like
- Grandparents Only DiscussionHi I’m a nana and haven’t seen my grandson for 9 month. My son is currently staying with me but is only allowed to see his son at her house for one hour maybe once a week when it suits her. She has a hatred for me and has sent me so much abuse over the last 5 years and because I speak back to her she constantly stops me and grandad seeing our grandson who absolutely adores us. My son had a one night stand she ended up pregnant she told him it was a joint decision my son told her I’m to young we don’t know each other and I’m not ready her response was well I’m keeping the baby I don’t believe in abortion ( but has since had 2 abortions my son being the dad) my son accepted her decision and told her he would be there to help financially and be there for his baby . He wasn’t allowed at any scans and at 8 month pregnant he decided to move in with her and give a relationship a go for the sake of his son. Since his son has been here she has done nothing but control my son in every way stopped him having friends going out and seeing family . She’s always been jealous of mine and my sons bond and she hates me for it. She’s sick and has even told him she thinks me and my son have a sexual relationship and our bond is weird. I’m apparently obsessed with my son . She’s tried everything to get in his head that our relationship is weird so that he stays away from me. She’s very minipulative and has used my grandson as a weapon from day one. My son has tried to end his life more than once because of the lack of access he has with his son and because she won’t allow him to be part of our family . Her mum also helps pull the strings. Her mum has 3 daughters her oldest daughter dad killed him self because he was stopped from seeing his daughter my grandson mums dad became an alcoholic and died through it again because he was stopped from seeing his daughter the oldest daughter went on to have her own daughter who’s dad killed him self because she stopped contact she then had 2 sons to a different man who last year jumped off a bridge survived but is now in a mental hospital again because he was stopped contact there is a pattern with this family of parent alienation coercive behaviour control and they just keep getting away with it. I’m so worried for my son and also my grandson who is being stopped for having a big loving family who all want him to be apart of our life because his mother wants to use him as a pawn in her sick game where the hell do we start